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Why do men lie?

8:03 PM

I had a double shift yesterday. That would mean as early as 4am in the morning I have to go to work,be out at 1pm and go back to work 11:45pm same date and be out at 9 am the next day. I have no actual sleep and by the time I was out at the office, I was really HUNGRY. God knows how much damage a person can do when she is hungry.I texted him to pick me up. I was so happy he replied that he’s almost there. 30 minutes later, He arrived. I was so wet from the rain that poured while waiting for him, plus my hungry stomach starting to kill me. I was so disappointed and felt betrayed. He said he’s almost there but took so long to pick me up. I know the drive was only 15 minute plus traffic. Then why did he say he’s almost there. Why do men lie?

I have collected three reasons from my office mates who belonged to the ADAM community and they say that " men lie because..."

1. They don’t want ladies to ask many questions.

To make the long story short, they lie to cut the conversations. Make sense? They like you to understand upfront and shut up. Girls as normal as I am would really ask questions. That is just normal in our hormones to ask and clarify things. But men don’t want like that.

2. They want something.

I had heard a saying before, while boys are visual, girls are more into hearing. Meaning that if you want to get something from a girl you better be good in words. They give you what you wanted to hear to approve their request. But little did they know that we’re more into honest words.

3. They don’t want to hurt us.

Truth can hurt at times and some men don’t really want to hurt the feelings of a girl by telling them the truth. If they smell complication, they would really say’ Im outta here”. The truth is, you will hurt us more with lying.

Here’s the catch, no matter what the sex is, we all lie. We have simple lies, white lies and complicated lies. No matter how little a lie is, it’s still a lie. We lie because we have our own reasons. We say it because we think that the truth is more painful than telling a lie. But as one Facebook status states “ Truth hurts but it will set you free”.

LOve,

Tags: Why do men lie? Relationship blues love Men Women

falsies

Make-up nuggets: The real "falsies".

8:32 AM

It's funny how mascaras emerge as a basic necessity in the world of cosmetics. The fact is that, for a tube of mascara, you only have to keep it for 3-6 months in your vanity. It becomes a good source of bacteria after that. But from a point of a woman, nothing beats the feel of a magic mascara wand. A newly bought one, when applied, feels so refreshing. It opens your eyes to the world like petals.Make your eyes extra special. For some who was blessed with great lashes, AMEN to that. But to those ladies with lashes that face right down. You bet it's a necessity.

Your Mascara is like one of your friends. They pretend they can stick around all the time but the truth is, they will not. It promises to lengthen your lashes, make it curlier than ever and waterproofs everything. But later when problem arises.It clumps, ruins your make-up and end up falling apart. Its like friendship.

You can choose a lot of friends but you'll never know who stays with you in the long run. Some may be good at the first meeting,later to realize that they are not the real person you have met.It's much better to have a few ones that you get to keep and that could be there for you all the time. The golden question is where can you find genuine ones?.Apparently, I don't know too.

They say that to harbor good friends, you must also be a good friend. Be someone who can make herself available in times of need. Be someone who is there to give advice and love. To be able to find one, just be one.And all will just come.

A genuine person is a deep person. It loves to be involve with you and be there for you for real. A real mascara will stand up for you and will never let you down. Don't you just love one?..Just stay away from the "falsies" friends. The falsies mascara from Maybelline might be of another story. (I love it!)