beautydamsel: relationships

Beauty Nuggets: The nail polish story.

8:06 AM

Let me share to you a nail polish story:

I was so happy that I was able to paint my nails again. As I was drying them, my daughter sleeping in the bed turned. I prayed please don't wake up just yet my nails are still wet.( First world problems lol). Every time she wakes up, she would look for me and if she can't feel my stretch marks, she would cry. Yes, My daughter feels them with her eyes close every night just to ensure that I am beside her every time she sleeps ( the beauty of stretch marks ladies).But just before my nail polish set, I felt her diaper. And it is already full. I hate full diapers.Without thinking twice, I replaced it immediately and throw the used diaper. My nails were ruined but I did not even mind. I will just repaint them if I will have the chance (fingers crossed).

Real deal;

As February enters 2015, too many people were occupied on how to please their girlfriends and boyfriends, friends or partner of any sort on the day of hearts. It is still February 1 and yet you can notice that love is in the air ( REALLY!). The flowers, chocolates, cards and even cupcakes are making a jolly noise in the stores and social media. Reservations on hotel and restaurants were made as well.

Are you set for the Valentines day?. I am pretty sure that you will have a great time, single or not. Amidst to all of this, the reason of the mom story in the intro is a reminder of selfless a mother can offer. You know how frustrating some nail polishes are, right?. Some will take so long to dry, ugh!

This coming Valentines day,before you go crazy looking for a perfect gift for your boyfriend, give your mom time and love. If not for them, we will never be in this Earth. They would always look for the welfare of their children first before their own. Personally, my mom was the first person who taught me how to LOVE. This heart month, take some time to reflect about your relationship with your mother. Find time to pamper her or send some loving card. Cheer her up not only this month. Trust me, you will feel light, satisfied and ready to rock the rest of the hearts day!

Let me leave you with a wonderful quote that says,

I hope you find this post reflective and helpful. See you in my next blog post!

ALWAYS,

girl

Why do men lie?

8:03 PM

I had a double shift yesterday. That would mean as early as 4am in the morning I have to go to work,be out at 1pm and go back to work 11:45pm same date and be out at 9 am the next day. I have no actual sleep and by the time I was out at the office, I was really HUNGRY. God knows how much damage a person can do when she is hungry.I texted him to pick me up. I was so happy he replied that he’s almost there. 30 minutes later, He arrived. I was so wet from the rain that poured while waiting for him, plus my hungry stomach starting to kill me. I was so disappointed and felt betrayed. He said he’s almost there but took so long to pick me up. I know the drive was only 15 minute plus traffic. Then why did he say he’s almost there. Why do men lie?

I have collected three reasons from my office mates who belonged to the ADAM community and they say that " men lie because..."

1. They don’t want ladies to ask many questions.

To make the long story short, they lie to cut the conversations. Make sense? They like you to understand upfront and shut up. Girls as normal as I am would really ask questions. That is just normal in our hormones to ask and clarify things. But men don’t want like that.

2. They want something.

I had heard a saying before, while boys are visual, girls are more into hearing. Meaning that if you want to get something from a girl you better be good in words. They give you what you wanted to hear to approve their request. But little did they know that we’re more into honest words.

3. They don’t want to hurt us.

Truth can hurt at times and some men don’t really want to hurt the feelings of a girl by telling them the truth. If they smell complication, they would really say’ Im outta here”. The truth is, you will hurt us more with lying.

Here’s the catch, no matter what the sex is, we all lie. We have simple lies, white lies and complicated lies. No matter how little a lie is, it’s still a lie. We lie because we have our own reasons. We say it because we think that the truth is more painful than telling a lie. But as one Facebook status states “ Truth hurts but it will set you free”.

LOve,